I must have been eleven or twelve years old living with my parents and four brothers at home in Cleveland, when I first remember Mom at a sewing machine. She was hunched over an ancient Singer, that sat atop our chestnut colored cherrywood dining room table. The machine, painted black had bright floral designs of red and blue scattered along its sides. Mom would be there for hours, her eyes deep in concentration, as she pressed a black foot pedal, which sent it whirring at laser speed. Mom sewed a lot for me then in the late sixties, when sensible A-line and Empire-waisted dresses were in fashion. She seemed to approach her projects with an artisan’s
zeal, making certain that each garment had uniform, even stitching. Whenever Mom compared the quality of store-bought clothing to the ones made at home, the store-bought items usually came up short.
"Humph!," she'd sniff after rifling through racks of clothing in the children's department at the local Sears and Roebuck. "The plaids don't even match!"
Most of the time, she waited until evening, after my brothers and I had headed off to bed to begin her projects. Listening to the radio as she sewed well into the wee hours of the morning, Mom's handiwork was always extraordinary.
Most of the time, she waited until evening, after my brothers and I had headed off to bed to begin her projects. Listening to the radio as she sewed well into the wee hours of the morning, Mom's handiwork was always extraordinary.
One particularly successful creation made my six year old self sparkle on my first day of kindergarten. It demonstrated a
masterful stroke of the sewing needle. The
two-piece outfit consisted of a white cotton dress with puffed sleeves and a
deep collar, while a blue and white gingham pinafore served as an overlay. I
felt like a princess. But the real tour de force was the hand-embroidered
bumblebee practically buzzing on the front pocket. Then in 6th
grade, when she learned that I’d won a school essay contest, Mom quickly
constructed an elegant gray double knit Empire waist dress with a white lace
collar and antique buttons. Sewing inspired her creativity, but it also ended up offering a way to teach me money-saving ideas.
“If you learn
to sew, Heather,” she’d say, “if you do
that, you can create a one-of-a-kind outfit, and you’ll save lots of
money.” Her eyes brightened with
excitement at the possibilities. “Then with
the money you’ve saved, you can go ahead and use it for something else you
want.”
With
five children, and Dad’s meager salary as a self-employed cement contractor in
summer, and a Yellow Cab driver in winter, Mom recognized the benefits of thrift
and smart budgeting early in their marriage.
And she tried to pass along each insight. She knew about the value
of recycling, long before it became a household word. After
I returned home from junior high school one fall afternoon, the recycling
notion became clear to me, too.
“Look
at this!,” Mom said excitedly, as her hand reached into a plain brown shopping
bag, and pulled out a simple garment.
The black velveteen dress had a look of elegance about it, though it was
much too big for either of us. She’d
just been to a local thrift shop.
“We
can take this and make something for you to wear,” she added. She looked pleased with the purchase, her
face beaming. I wanted to understand,
but I didn’t really get it. I didn’t
know what she wanted me to see. It was
just an old dress, wasn’t it?
Apparently recognizing just how dense a 13 year old could be, she demonstrated. Her arms extended the length of the dress as
she spoke. “Let’s take one of your
jumper patterns and place the front and back pieces on the largest sections of
this outfit,” she said. We’ll have to
make a seam in front, but that can be covered with a colorful braid trim.” She was incredible. Devouring ideas from thrift store back issues
of magazines like Woman’s Day and Family Circle, columns in either The Cleveland Press or The Plain Dealer, one of our two daily newspapers, and her own
imagination, Mom made magic.
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